41 accountability quotes for teams, friends and yourself

The best accountability quotes put the responsibility where it belongs, on the person reading. "The price of greatness is responsibility" (Winston Churchill, 1943) is a good example. Below are 41 accountability and responsibility quotes, each checked against the original book, speech or letter, grouped for yourself, for friends and partners, and for teams and leaders.

Most quote lists copy each other, so the same mistakes travel. We left out anything we could not trace to a source, gave the source wording when it differs from the popular version, and listed the famous misattributions at the end.

Roomie Cafe is a free focus timer you share with friends. We make it, and the point of this list is to turn a quote into something you actually do, so we come back to that near the end.

Accountability quotes for yourself

1. "It is the part of an uneducated person to blame others where he himself fares ill; to blame himself is the part of one whose education has begun; to blame neither another nor his own self is the part of one whose education is already complete." Epictetus, Enchiridion 5 (W. A. Oldfather's translation, 1928) [1]
2. "What the superior man seeks, is in himself. What the mean man seeks, is in others." Confucius, Analects XV.20 (James Legge's translation) [2]
3. "He who requires much from himself and little from others, will keep himself from being the object of resentment." Confucius, Analects XV.14 (Legge) [2]
4. "When we see men of worth, we should think of equalling them; when we see men of a contrary character, we should turn inwards and examine ourselves." Confucius, Analects IV.17 (Legge) [2]
5. "The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, / But in ourselves, that we are underlings." William Shakespeare, Julius Caesar, Act 1, Scene 2. Cassius says it to Brutus [3].
6. "Freedom is the will to be responsible for ourselves." Friedrich Nietzsche, Twilight of the Idols (A. M. Ludovici's translation, 1911) [4]
7. "Not everything that is faced can be changed; but nothing can be changed until it is faced." James Baldwin, "As Much Truth As One Can Bear", The New York Times Book Review (1962) [5]
8. "There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction; the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you." J. K. Rowling, Harvard commencement speech (2008) [6]
9. "In the long run, we shape our lives and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And, the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility." Eleanor Roosevelt, You Learn by Living (1960) [7]
10. Character is "the willingness to accept responsibility for one's own life." Joan Didion, "On Self-Respect", Vogue (1961). The full sentence goes on to call it the source of self respect [8].
11. "Life ultimately means taking the responsibility to find the right answer to its problems and to fulfill the tasks which it constantly sets for each individual." Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning (Ilse Lasch's translation) [9]
12. "Each man is questioned by life; and he can only answer to life by answering for his own life; to life he can only respond by being responsible." Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning (Lasch) [9]
13. "Man is responsible for what he is." Jean-Paul Sartre, Existentialism Is a Humanism (1946 lecture, Philip Mairet's translation) [10]
14. "How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before beginning to improve the world!" Anne Frank, the essay "Give!" (26 March 1944). This is a popular translation; another reads "no one has to wait, but can start right now" [11].
15. "Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay." Ecclesiastes 5:5 (King James Version) [12]
16. "Now a promise made is a debt unpaid, and the trail has its own stern code." Robert W. Service, "The Cremation of Sam McGee" (1907). Most lists cut it to the first half [13].

Your next action: write one sentence that starts "By Friday I will..." and make it specific enough that someone else could check it.

Accountability quotes for friends and partners

1. "Cherish some man of high character, and keep him ever before your eyes, living as if he were watching you, and ordering all your actions as if he beheld them." Seneca, quoting Epicurus, Moral Letters to Lucilius, Letter 11 (R. M. Gummere's translation) [14]. Possibly the oldest description of an accountability partner.
2. "Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend." Proverbs 27:17 (King James Version) [12]
3. "Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow." Ecclesiastes 4:9 to 10 (King James Version) [12]
4. "A threefold cord is not quickly broken." Ecclesiastes 4:12 (King James Version) [12]
5. "Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful." Proverbs 27:6 (King James Version) [12]
6. "I daily examine myself on three points: whether, in transacting business for others, I may have been not faithful; whether, in intercourse with friends, I may have been not sincere; whether I may have not mastered and practised the instructions of my teacher." Zengzi (Tsang), a student of Confucius, Analects I.4 (Legge; punctuation simplified) [2]
7. "Few things help an individual more than to place responsibility upon him, and to let him know that you trust him." Booker T. Washington, Up from Slavery (1901) [15]
8. "You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed." Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince (1943), chapter 21 [16]
9. "Alone we can do so little. Together we can do so much." Helen Keller, spoken in her stage act in the early 1920s, according to Joseph Lash's biography Helen and Teacher (1980) [17]
10. "The way to learn whether a person is trustworthy is to trust him." Ernest Hemingway, as recalled by A. E. Hotchner in Papa Hemingway (1966). The popular "the best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them" is a later rewording [18].
11. "Every one is really responsible to all men for all men and for everything." Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov (Constance Garnett's translation) [19]

Your next action: send one person the goal you wrote above and ask them to ask you about it on Friday.

Accountability quotes for teams and leaders

1. "The price of greatness is responsibility." Winston Churchill, speech at Harvard, 6 September 1943 [20]
2. "The Buck Stops Here." Harry S. Truman, the sign on his desk, sent to him in October 1945. He made the phrase famous; he did not coin it [21].
3. "The President ... has to decide. He can't pass the buck to anybody. No one else can do the deciding for him. That's his job." Harry S. Truman, farewell address, 15 January 1953 [22]
4. "If any blame or fault attaches to the attempt it is mine alone." Dwight D. Eisenhower, the note he wrote on 5 June 1944 in case the D Day landings failed [23]
5. "There's an old saying that victory has 100 fathers and defeat is an orphan." John F. Kennedy, news conference, 21 April 1961, after the Bay of Pigs. In the same answer he called himself "the responsible officer of the Government" [24].
6. "I do not shrink from this responsibility ... I welcome it." John F. Kennedy, inaugural address (1961) [25]
7. "A body of men, holding themselves accountable to nobody, ought not to be trusted by anybody." Thomas Paine, Rights of Man (1791) [26]
8. "For the strength of the Pack is the Wolf, and the strength of the Wolf is the Pack." Rudyard Kipling, "The Law of the Jungle", The Second Jungle Book (1895) [27]
9. "There are no bad teams, only bad leaders." Leif Babin, in Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin (2015), where it is also the title of chapter 2 [28]
10. "Great things in business are never done by one person. They're done by a team of people." Steve Jobs, 60 Minutes (2003) [29]
11. "Talent wins games, but teamwork and intelligence wins championships." Michael Jordan, I Can't Accept Not Trying (1994). The book has "wins", not "win" [30].
12. "Work implies not only that somebody is supposed to do the job, but also accountability, a deadline and, finally, the measurement of results." Peter Drucker, Management: Tasks, Responsibilities, Practices [31]
13. "It is not the critic who counts ... The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena." Theodore Roosevelt, "Citizenship in a Republic", Paris, 23 April 1910 [32]
14. "I recommend that the Statue of Liberty on the East Coast be supplemented by a Statue of Responsibility on the West Coast." Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning, in the later editions (Lasch) [9]

Your next action: at your next team meeting, end with one question: "Who owns this, and by when?"

Accountability quotes that are misattributed

These appear on most lists. Some are good sayings, just not from the person on the poster, or from nobody anyone can find.

We also could not trace these to any source, so if you use them, write "attributed to": "It is not only what we do, but also what we do not do, for which we are accountable" (Molière), the line about ninety nine percent of failures coming from people who make excuses (George Washington Carver), "Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody else expects of you" (Henry Ward Beecher), "Coming together is a beginning..." (Henry Ford) and the "accountability breeds response ability" pun (Stephen Covey).

How to turn a quote into a commitment

A quote gives you a minute of resolve. Accountability is what happens after that minute. Research on goal tracking found that monitoring your progress helps you reach goals, and helps more when you report the results to someone else [39]. So:

1. Pick one quote that fits where you are. One, not ten.
2. Write one commitment under it. Specific and checkable, with a day: "Draft the intro by Thursday at 6", not "work on the report".
3. Tell one person. A friend, a coworker, a partner.
4. Agree when they will ask. A fixed time, like Friday at 5.
5. Report back, done or not. One line on what you did, one on what is next.

Template: send this to your accountability partner

I'm using this as my line for the week: "[quote]". My commitment: by [day and time] I will [specific thing]. Can you ask me on [day] whether I did it? Happy to do the same for you.

If you do not have someone to send it to yet, our guide on how to find an accountability partner covers where to look and the rules that keep it going. For quotes about the daily side of it, see our verified discipline quotes.

Where Roomie Cafe fits

Roomie Cafe is a light way to keep step 5 going. You press start, pick what you are working on and a length from 5 to 90 minutes, and friends see that you are focusing and on what. There is no webcam, no microphone and nothing to book. When the timer ends you write one line about what you got done, and friends can cheer and comment.

Your history keeps a heat calendar, totals and weekly goals, so the next check in starts from what you actually did. It runs on the web and as an iPhone, iPad and Mac app, and it is free with no limit on sessions. If you like the idea of quiet company while you each work, read about parallel play for adults.

FAQ

What is a good quote about accountability?

One that is short, verified and puts the responsibility on you, like Churchill's "The price of greatness is responsibility" or Baldwin's "Nothing can be changed until it is faced."

Who said "the buck stops here"?

Harry S. Truman made it famous with a sign on his desk, which was mailed to him in October 1945. The phrase existed before him, but he is the person most linked to it.

What does the Bible say about accountability?

Two often quoted passages are Proverbs 27:17, "Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend," and Ecclesiastes 4:9 to 10, "Two are better than one... For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow."

What is a short accountability quote?

"The Buck Stops Here" (Truman), "The price of greatness is responsibility" (Churchill) and "A threefold cord is not quickly broken" (Ecclesiastes) all fit on a sticky note.

Is "if you want to go fast, go alone" an African proverb?

Nobody knows. When NPR looked into it in 2016, the scholars it asked could not trace it to any particular country or people, though some felt it fits African ideas about community. It is safest to call it a saying of unknown origin.

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